This product lacks visually but I assure you this is well worth it. I've been in retail 20 years and out of all the toys this one seems to have given woman the most pleasure of all. Feed back from customers has been quite amazing. I sold one couple ( they were about 60 years of age ) this toy, a couple of weeks later they came back and the lady was estatic , she had never had an orgasm before she used this toy. Guys it may take a couple of times before you get used to it. Hang in there it's well worth it. For some guys you may need lube to help you get the ring on. The firmness of the ring around the penis helps to pro long the guy during sex.